Thank you for stopping by our blog. If this is your first time visiting I hope you enjoy our personal views for the early years. Our topics and ideas are based on years of home childcare experience mixed with a balance of theory and new ideas from around the world.

Today we're discussing how we as educators and parents can support children on their social development journey. We all know children who are born extroverts. They exude confidence and appear comfortable in any situation. In direct opposition, the introverted children in our lives do not appear confident in social situations. Often they pull away from peers and play independently. 

Home childcare programs. early-years classrooms, playdates at the park, and even individual home environments will have a mix of multiple personalities. Each child is an individual, and their individuality is to be respected. We are not "fixing" their deficits; instead, we are encouraging respectful and appropriate inclusiveness. 

I love a good child development theory. To start our discussion on supporting social development, it's only fair we go straight to Eric Erikson. Let's have a look at Erikson's first three stages. 

The common theme between the three stages is Relationships. Before children can build positive and reciprocal peer relationships, they need to build strong relationships with the core adults whom they interact with daily. These include but are not limited to parents, guardians, core educators, and caregivers. The importance of early relationships is a big reason why I love Home Child Care as much as I do. Home Daycare by it's very formation is one educator who cares for the child from infancy to school age. Whereas in a daycare centre the child is transitioned to a new room, new educator, possibly a whole new group of peers as they enter each new age group. There are a few daycares who follow the Reggio Emilia approach and keep the same educator with the same group of children as they grow from infancy to school age. Again the core value that early relationships are crucial to life long success is paramount. 

So how does this knowledge guide us to support children's social development? 

1. We need to recognize that children need to be respected inherently. The adage of "respect is earned" has no value or purpose in the early years. It's an out of date, masculine phrase degrading of a person's self-worth. Children learn how to respect adults and their peers from the way adults treat them. If the core adults in their lives are overly cynical, give harsh or degrading consequences, and undermine their ideas, it's no wonder they either "act out" or "isolate" themselves. 
   
2. Remember, children are great at imitating our actions. Modeling positive, calm, and respectful social communication with the child, their peers, and other adults is a great place to start. Here are a few great tips to remember
   
   1. engage in one-to-one and face-to-face interactions with children
   2. use a pleasant, calm voice and simple language
   3. provide warm, responsive physical contact
   4. follow the child's lead and interest during play
   5. help children understand home and program expectations
   6. redirect children when they engage in challenging behaviour (before it goes too far)
   7. Listen to children and encourage them to listen to others
   8. acknowledge children for their accomplishments and effort.  

Another practical step we can take to support social development is to intentionally plan activities and "invitations to play" that promote social interaction. 

Learning in the early years is fundamentally a social experience. As children learn about themselves and others, they strengthen their emotional intelligence, their ability to construct plans, and attend to what's important. They do all this based on the values and practices their core adults provide through daily activities. Thoughtfully planned "curriculum" supports children to develop these skills through potential social interactions with their peers and adults. 
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These "5 Great Curriculum Starters" listed are just that, STARTERS. When planning daily activities, reflective practices are paramount. The use of different centres and manipulative's within a childcare environment are what create opportunities for meaningful play. Not listed in the infographic are imaginative play centers. These include dress-up, kitchens, tool benches, cleaning supplies, animal care kits, and more. 
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ELECT (Early Learning For Every Child Today) is a valuable resource used by early childhood educators and childcare providers. This document outlines developmental domains and lists indicators of skills for each age group. As a next step, I encourage you to review social and emotional development for each age group. Linking "indicators of skills" to your specific curriculum can support how you view the children in your care. Hopefully, by observing and reflecting on "what's developmentally normal," you are better able to scaffold the children's learning. 

                Join me for a walk down memory lane. At the edge of the garden, I stand patiently as my Grandma Joyce ties a fruit basket with an old piece of rope around my waist. Once my handy basket is secure, I grab two plastic berry quarts and put them in the basket. In front of me are rows, upon rows raspberries. Now, these are not just any raspberries. These are blue raspberries. The biggest and sweetest raspberries you ever could eat! I'm not alone in my berry picking. With me is my brother Chris, my cousin Jessica, my other cousin Daniel, my aunt Valerie, my mom, and my Grandma. Sometimes neighbours came too but not today. My Grandpa is over checking out the other plants in the garden (likely squishing potato bugs…that's a memory for another time lol). Picking berries was a family event/contest. The girls: my cousin and I against the boys: Chris and Daniel. Clearly, the girls were the better pickers (haha sorry not sorry). We picked more quarts while not leaving precious berries behind on the bushes. 

                 Looking back on this memory, one of my favorite parts concerns not with the berries we picked but with the way my Grandma Joyce just "was." She praised us for our work (which she trusted us to do), encouraged us to laugh,  brought us together, and loved us with everything she could. This memory cost $0, yet it is one of my strongest childhood memories. 

One of my "learning" environments growing up was my Grandma's garden. The knowledge provided just by letting me tag along, giving me chores, and actively communicating her know-how had a massive impact on my life. As early childhood educators, we owe it to the children in our care to take them back to nature. Nature is more than just walking through a forest, or exploring a meadow. It's more than gardening or picking flowers. Nature teaches us about life and death, cause and effect, senses, respect, and most importantly, it supports positive emotional and physical well-being. 

A great first step is to incorporate gardening into your sensory play. Allowing children to: 

• dig in the dirt
• add water
• fill seed trays
• plant seeds
• spray water using a spray bottle
• decorate planting pots
• build raised beds
• decorate garden stones 
• pull weeds

​These are all things young children are capable of. Supervision is essential as plants can be delicate, and potting soil isn't for eating. Let's take a second to talk about "resources." Gardening supplies are considered a teaching resource when they are brought into the early year's environment. As with introducing anything new, it's best to start with baby steps. Introducing gardening books into the reading nook, introducing gardening tools in the sand area, talking about delicate and soft touches. Experiment using our "pincer grasp" and then finally adding a seed starting activity. If children are not given any skills or knowledge prior, they will inherently play "their way" and "their way" might be stressful for us as educators. An activity we've planned with stimulating, and delicate resources could be destroyed. Supporting the child to understand and respect living things does not interfere with the concept of "child-led play." Rather it scaffolds the child's prior knowledge while allowing for supervised exploration. Eventually, the new plants will be transplanted in the garden. As educators, we will then continue to communicate plant husbandry and allow children's minds to flourish with hypothesizes and wonder. 

We live in Canada… so our outdoor gardening season isn't very long. What can we do for the rest of the year? Having plants around our play spaces and throughout our homes allows children to feel connected to nature even when it's snowy outside. The benefits of houseplants transcend beyond just the child. They are crucial to our own feelings of well-being. 
Houseplants have incredible benefits beyond just being nice to look at. These include: ​

• cleaning the air in our homes (some are better than others. A quick google search for "air cleaning houseplants" will guide you in the right direction).
• improving mental health (just looking at greenery can make us happier)
• add humidity to the environment (especially good during winter months)
• they add oxygen back into the air
• they give your immune system a boost! Beneficial bacteria and chemicals are produced/released from plants. These compounds naturally reduce feelings of stress. When less stressed our bodies are able to sleep and function better. When we sleep better we aren't as susceptible to illnesses. GO PLANTS. 

I encourage having poisonous plants in your home and play space. Just be smart about it. The Peace Lily for example is the #1 best air purifying plant. It has striking green leaves and a super neat flower during it's bloom season. Nevertheless the Peace Lilly is considered poisonous (if consumed). This is a plant to put out of reach. The same way we put covers over electrical outlets vs. not having any electrical outlets. Having plants that are dangerous if eaten opens the door for multiple communication and teaching moments. 

If however you can only have "safe" plants in your environment here's a short list I hope you find useful: 

• Christmas Cactus​
• Boston Fern 
• Blue Echeveria (succulent family)
• African violets
• Baby rubber plant (the rubber plant is considered poisonous but the "baby" rubber plant is a non-toxic alternative)
• Swedish ivy 
• Prayer plant (this plant is super neat! the leaves fold up at night time…thus its name)
• wax plant (also known as porcelain flower)
• Spider plant (great for those who want a plant easy to propagate) 
• Basil- normally thought of as a garden plant, basil is easily grown indoors year round. 

Sources: 
              Positive Health Wellness,.(Sept.27/2018). 7 Science-backed benefits of having plants at home. sourced from:  https://www.ecowatch.com/health-benefits-of-having-plants-at-home-2608386260.html

             D.Murray,. (March 16/2018). 20 Plants that are safe for children, cats and dogs. sourced from: https://www.hgtv.ca/green-living/photos/plants-child-pet-safe-1913786/# 

             ​  I have been trying lately to align what my core foundational theories are. When looking at current research concerning early childhood development, the top three approaches are #1. Reggio #2. Montessori #3. Emergent Curriculum. All of these approaches to building learning environments and teaching practices are quite similar. They all appreciate the need to build strong relationships in the early years. They all prefer more natural play materials, and finally, they all see the child as capable and competent. 

       Home childcare providers within Little Lambs are encouraged if not required to follow the above practices. HOWEVER intrinsically there is just something else happening in the home childcare environment. Something that the listed approaches don't cover. I haven't been able to put my finger on what that "thing" was until recently. While looking through my Spotify app, I found a new early years podcast (well…new to me). Kimberly @KSEYconsultancy founded the podcast titled "Hygge in the Early Years." 

     I'm hooked! Honestly, Kimberly is a breath of fresh air. AND her accent/tone makes her sound like one of the sweetest people on the planet. Kimberly's podcast is as much about early childhood learning and environments as it is about educators and their self-care and well-being. The foundation she has built for her early year's programs and her mentorship is based on a single word, "Hygge." 

"Hygge (pronounced hue-guh, not hoo-gah) is a Danish word used when acknowledging a feeling or moment, ordinary or extraordinary as cozy, charming or special." (S. Bennett, The Curiosity Approach). 

Anyone who knows me knows how much I love my blankets. I sit curled up on the couch, mug in hand with my Hubby every single night. Guess what??? That's Hygge! Think twinkly lights, candles, the roar of a fire. Think warm drinks, blankets, and nurturing food. Think about being out in nature, enjoying all the seasons to the fullest: in as many ways possible. Think spending money on memories vs. things. Think relationships, socializing, laughter, and self-care. 

Hygge sounds like my life! It looks like what I believe home childcare can and should be. Going beyond the concept of environment and relationships, Hygge gives a term to how children feel while at the home childcare premises. It's truly a sense of well-being. The depth of relationships is vast in the Home Child Care Environment. Children from infancy to school age are cared for by a single childcare provider. During this time, they build strong relationships with the other daycare children as well as the providers own children. Often children will wave good-bye in the morning and greet the provider's partner again at the end of the day. These tertiary relationships are not something that happens in the daycare centre environment. 

         Over and over again, I have preached "non-institutionalized" environments in the early years. Homes are by their very essence "non-institutional." Even the most beautiful classrooms are still that…classrooms. Children will be in traditional education from Kindergarten through to High School and post-secondary education. Through our partnership with home childcare providers, we create incredible learning environments that support the development of responsive relationships that allow children to explore, grow, and learn. We do all of this while providing a cozy home environment. 
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So when searching for

• what theory best aligns with my personal feelings? 
• what the environment should look like?
• how educators should interact with children?
• what our curriculum should be? 
• what plays a role in the well-being of children?
• how educators are thought of? 

​I found Hygge! 

I hope that you have enjoyed reading this post as much as I have enjoyed typing away under the comfort of my blanket ;) 

We've been getting a lot of questions concerning potty training.
Concerns aplenty….
Sadly the number one factor pushing parents to potty train is not their child's readiness but societies (friends, parent's, in-laws, that perfect at everything Mom down the street…) constant judgment. Sometimes it's not even necessarily outside judgement but our own feelings of inadequacy. Judging ourselves as parents the way we judge our bodies when looking at a magazine does nothing to support our children.

When we follow our child's signs of readiness the entire potty training adventure will be much smoother. Not only smoother but quicker. 

Please note that all children are individuals. They grow and develop at their own rate. Most will potty train between 18 months-2.5 years old. However this does not mean that there are no exceptions. There are the "God gifted children" who seemingly potty train themselves at ridiculously young ages…. this is rare and enviable by all parents. There are also children who for whatever reason could care less, don't understand their bodies signs or don't feel the sensation of "needing to go". For these children pushing them, con-sequencing them or using negative reinforcement of any kind will only further slow the process. It's also completely unnecessary. 

I hope you find the information in this post useful. Every child will potty train eventually. Consistency, patience and kindness go a long way in helping your child. 

Little Lambs has been on an exciting ride so far this year. As a licensed child care agency we build partnerships with our providers as much as we do our clients…if not more. Without the support of each individual provider there would be no Little Lambs.  

This was a major factor leading to Little Lambs partnership with HiMama. In addition to introducing the new software we also provided each home with a tablet. By enabling our providers to revamp the way they complete their required documentation we hope to free up their time to do what really matters. 

On that note I would like to share a few photos showcasing just how amazing our providers are. These photos showcase learning environments created by these ladies, snippets from their curriculum activities and child-initiated exploration. 

With anticipation for what February will bring I leave you with these words. 
"Simple fact: children are more interested
in the things they choose than the things
we choose for them." 
                  ~Janet Lansbury 

Good morning, 
This little video was first published to our facebook page. However I realize that not everyone loves and uses facebook. I am posting it here to ensure it reaches as many people as possible. 

I had the privilege of being part of an amazing conference call about a month ago. Myself, representatives from Hastings County and other Daycare Directors all spoke about a new fee affordability pilot program. This program initiated by Hastings County Child Care Services staff reduces child care fees for all parents of infants and toddlers accessing licensed child care. Both Centre based care and home child care qualify for this program. This funding is not dependant on parental income. It simply supports all families.

This is huge to me for so many reasons.

1.  Our middle class families who make just enough to not qualify for child care fee subsidy but not quite enough to feel like they are getting ahead can greatly benefit from this funding. Money is a massive contributor to everything in our daily lives. From the roof over our heads, food on our tables, family trips, new clothes for those expected and unexpected growth spirts, car bills, unexpected costs, hydro, water,….cost of living. So having this funding to support parents to cover the cost associated with child care is amazing. Hopefully it ensures everyone enjoys a wonderful Christmas while avoiding Christmas "debt". 
2. Equality!! This is massive for me. Statistically speaking for most nuclear middle class families. If the potential income earned from a Mother returning to work does sufficiently exceed what the child care costs will be….she doesn't return. Being a stay at home Mom is wonderful and I am not casting judgment on those who "choose" to stay at home. My point is it's a choice. With this funding the choice is the mothers. It is not made for her because of child care costs. In 2018 we deserve equality in the workplace. Women can't be present at important meetings or even at the table if they aren't there. This funding ensures that if women choose to go back to work it isn't a choice made by a financial precursor. It is her choice. 
3. Licensed child care is regulated. There are ministry and agency regulations that must be followed for the Home child care provider to remain licensed. If these expectations and requirements are not being met then that provider will lose their licensing contract. When parents choose licensed child care they have assurance that programming meets early years needs, menus follow dietary requirements and that their provider is competent. More often than not licensed child care costs more than unlicensed child care. This funding helps parents to choose licensed child care over unregulated care. 

Thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts. If you enjoyed this posts and the attached video I welcome you to leave a comment and share on your social media pages. Let me know what you want to hear more about! 

Enjoy this beautiful weekend. 
​Kristina xoxo